THE END OF 2015 & THE BEGINNING OF 2016

SUMMARY OF 2015

1. I have become an electrical engineer officially. Though I haven't done great at  my academics, this year I completed my course and am now a post graduate in Power Systems.
2. I have got my first job. I am placed in TATA CONSULTANCY SERVICES (TCS). Though I got placed with this company in 2015 , I need to join TCS on 15 Feb 2016 in Ahmedabad, Gujarat.
3. I got my first arrear in my 9th semester , that too in lab. That made my final days in college pathetic. There was a big , tough experiment which I didn't study. To my misfortune I got that exact experiment in lab. This mistake is a great lesson to never depend on luck and to at least be prepared/ready  to manage things.
4. I joined the N.G.O BHUMI. This have given me various opportunities - to teach children, paint in Coimbatore Government Hospital and has taught me various life lessons.
5. I went as a Scribe and wrote three exams for the blind. This is the best thing of 2015 for me I would say.
6. I joined Quora. This has helped me learn a wide range of subjects, it motivates and inspires me on a daily basis.
7. I have lost touch with various friends. This shows nothing is permanent. It might be partly because of the hectic schedule in their lives and partly because of not feeling the priority to be in touch.
8. I have created a great level of misunderstanding with my so called bestie. This one has devastated me emotionally to a greater extent. This shows that we should not set expectations and expect others to meet them for us. Everyone is unique and they need not be the way we want to be accepted. Trust has to be built/earned. We cannot force people to live and do things as per our wishes. Mutual respect, personal space, understanding and compatibility are the most important in any relationship. And none of these are impossible. They need time, strong and positive mind, enough talking and understanding. I have learnt that being possessive is not a sign of love but insecurity. It becomes a burden on the other without our knowledge. It takes away someone's personal space and all their actions are unknowingly judged or limited by us. Never create this pathetic situation for the other. Give people the space to be themselves because nobody is here to please you, everyone's life has a bigger purpose.
9. My Facebook got hacked in a pathetic way. That's a big story but it really was very bewildering. The hacker got access to all my messages and photos on Facebook. This taught me not to risk my life to show someone which countries I visited, my cool pics , my friends etc because those who care don't need all this, they will always be around you when you are in need and none of those Facebook friends bother actually about your life.